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Archives for September 2008

SONG OF WEIRDNESS

I don’t often “get” mark driscoll. But that doesn’t mean much I suppose.

It means we don’t share the same view on many issues in the church. It means we could have a spirited debate over a beverage. It doesn’t mean I think he’s not a believer or satan- all of which I’m sure he’s been called- mostly because he rarely minces words. He has a long reputation of “speaking his mind” and with his extreme views, creating a love him or hate him environment. It also creates, like a big political figure, a long list of followers in a grip of locations in the Seattle area.

Regardless, his latest teaching series is one I ran across by accident today. I heard it was from Mark Driscoll on the Song of Songs so I was already skeptical. I’m sure we don’t share a lot of the same views on sexuality, women, or the interpretation on this book’s literary form.

But I was utterly unprepared for this website. It’s not my picture of the image of the Biblical book. It’s not my picture of Mark. And it is utterly weird. I think they might have hired a new web animator with an idea and a paycheck. I don’t get it. Maybe the teaching will clear it up. Maybe not.

HAIR ISSUES

I have hair issues.

#1. It’s running to the back of my head. (It’s not coming out my ears yet, but I’m sure it will)

#2. It’s evidently growing more on one side of my face than the other. My wife said during a conversation today, “can we talk about your side burns?” I said, “No. What are you talking about?” She said one is longer than the other significantly.

So I took the photo evidence of my stupid sideburns who evidently don’t talk to one another and my forehead that is gaining real estate.


don’t worry, I have a solution. I’m going to cut it off my side burn and glue it on my head.

THANK YOU LETTER

I went to the wedding of a former student last April. Today I got the thank you note from this student.

Before you think this post is about how long that took… keep reading.

This student was one of the first students I met in my very first youth ministry job. I think he has been out of Powerhouse High School ministry for at least 10 years now.

Here’s the letter:


Favorite Powerhouse Memories:

  • Brian and camp staff attacking boys cabins in pick-up truck, getting soaked and getting the windshield broken….
  • Busting out the hoola hoops off the grape-vine w/Katie while van was being fixed on the way to Mexico.
  • Poorly “TP”ing your house with Daryl and Mikey so much that you didn’t bother cleaning it up
  • Listening to “play that funky music whiteboy” loudly on the way to camp in the bus while Brian pumped the brakes (dangerously) to the beat on 580.
  • Brian and Shannon pulling me aside, faces beaming, at the wedding in 2008 and exclaiming how happy they are for me.

Thank you guys. Oh yes, thanks for the nifty glasses set too! We’ll come visit you guys soon sometime.

SO, HERE’S THE TRUTHS I FOUND INSIDE THIS LOVE NOTE:

Lesson #1: no youth group teaching I give ever makes the “best of” list. Not sure what that means since this guy sat through hundreds of talks, but nonetheless, it’s true.

Lesson #2: The best and longest lasting fruit in youth ministry is the stuff that happens in the unplanned, unscripted, craziness of doing life together.

Lesson #3: I really need to get a bus for Encounter. I miss jacking with kids while I’m driving.

CONVICTION VS. CONVENIENCE

Today I felt like God gave me those two words to ponder.  It came in a question:  “Which do you want to live by:  convenience or conviction?”

As I stewed on this, here’s what’s been kicking around in my head in one way or another.  
  • Convenience is comfortable and easy.  Conviction is risky and difficult.
  • Convenience enables one’s desires.   Conviction shapes one’s behavior.
  • Convenience is common. Conviction is rare.
  • Convenience loves what I’ve always done.   Conviction takes the road less traveled, regardless of the cost.
  • Convenience is recycling when there’s a drop spot in the hall.  Conviction causes you to carry the empty bottle all the way home if need be.
  • Convenience prays with my family at church.  Conviction prays when no one is looking.
  • Convenience is saying “I’m a christian.” Conviction is living like Jesus.
  • Convenience says helping others is important.  Conviction says talk is cheap.
  • Convenience eats whatever, whenever food is around.  Conviction chooses what to eat and when.
  • Convenience obeys my desires.  Conviction obeys my soul.
  • Convenience is casual. Conviction is powerful.
  • Convenience causes one to please people.  Conviction causes one to lead people.
  • Convenience gives when money is plentiful.  Conviction gives out of principle.
  • Convenience empowers laziness.  Conviction fuels self-discipline. 
As I thought about it today, I really want to live by conviction.  But it’s easier said than done. When I live by convenience, I have fewer tough decisions.  I get more done.  I have lots of company in the journey.   When I live by conviction, life gets intensely faith filled.   I get less done.  I find my companions on the journey dwindles.  
Jesus’ famous words in Mark 8 seem to speak to this:  
Then, calling the crowd to join his disciples, he said, “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must turn from your selfish ways, take up your cross, and follow me.  If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it.  And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul? Is anything worth more than your soul?” 

And perhaps these words in Matthew 7 as well.

 “Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.”


I’m on the crux of some life changing “conviction-over-convenience” decisions in my life.  I’m reaffirming my desire to obey the Holy Spirit’s conviction… but it will be anything but convenient.

A BUCK A WEEK IS ALL WE ASK

We ask our students to bring a buck a week. So far, it’s not exactly owned by all. More like about 25% of them. But for what it’s worth. Here’s why we ask for a buck a week.

I’m praying they bring it. It’s amazing how a large group of students doing small things together can truly change the world we live in.