Husband. Dad to 5. Student Ministry Pastor. Follower of Jesus. Yatta yatta.

BIKING TO WORK

Well, for a while now I’ve been trying to talk myself into biking to work. Problem is it it’s takes me like 15 minutes to drive there using freeways. If I take the streets, there are lots of hills and if I take the safest route where I will be least likely to get hit by a car, I’m thinking it’s going to take me like 45 minutes to an hour on my new cruiser bike. I think. I’m not sprinting the whole way on a road bike with spandex.

Anyway, yesterday, while studying for a mid-term, I sat in a coffee shop in the morning and saw a sign saying that Friday was ride your bike to work day. So, I mapquested it and found out it’s 9 miles. Took me forever to figure out how to make it choose the route I wanted. Hence the four points of destination I had to enter to get to my work.


Then today, when I got my coffee, I told the coffee shop owner that I was biking to work on Friday, and he said, “You get a free breakfast!” Wow. So what’s another half mile? Now I’m definitely trying it. Friday I think I’m going to ride bikes with the boys to school and then I’m biking to work. Then I’m celebrating with java and a breakfast bowl at Cosmos. Weather man says it’s supposed to hit 97 in El Cajon on Friday. Hopefully I’ll be out early enough to beat the heat.

Maybe I can convince my wife to join me. Wish me luck.

MOTHERS DAY RECAP

Shannon’s mom has been in town all this week and then for the weekend, Gary joined us too.

I had to head in early Sunday morning to get ready for our student service. But in my absence, the boys woke up early with grandpa and made the mom and grandma breakfast. The boys had made a happy mother’s day banner and “secretly” bought all the supplies for breakfast the day before. I say “secretly” because the fridge was chocked full with enough bacon and eggs and sausage to feed 12 moms, but maybe my boys thought they’d be really hungry.

Anyway, after breakfast, the rest of the clan joined me at church and then we went home for family pictures on the lawn.


Then we loaded up the bikes and went to Mission beach to take the grandma and grandpa on their first seaside bike ride here in SD, something that has become a family favorite for us. We rented 2 more cruisers and rode to PB where we had mochas at this coffee shop that serves like 40 different varieties and tops them off with chocolate whipped cream.

Then we rode down to south mission and then went to Red Lobster for dinner- per the request of grandma who held nothing back and had some kinda seafood feast I think. Lobster, crab, shrimp, fish and probably kelp or something. So fun.

3 cheers for moms and grandmas. So wish we could have spent it with all who hold that title in our family, but we take what we can get.

BLOOD, SWEAT, TEARS, AND FUND RAISING

I’m blessed to be at a church that does not do fund raisers. But when we did our church building program last year, we decided that for the next 3 years, we’d commit to helping our church increase funds to the building fund by serving our congregation and community through meeting some basic needs. This year, we combined the jobs with some jobs we had lined up for our Uganda trip too and added a night of childcare. So, on May 10th, the day before mother’s day, we performed the mother of all mother’s day gifts with a serving day we call “Help us, Help you” and here’s what it amounted to this year:

  • 22 adults – college or older
  • 63 middle school and high school students

Serving on:

  • 5 car wash teams going to 12 locations to wash 26 cars and 1 RV
  • 2 house cleaning teams going to 5 locations to clean toilets and wash windows
  • 11 yard work teams serving in 20 separate locations where we busted our back sides pulling weeds and doing dump runs and chopping down bushes
  • 40 kids for childcare

Which resulted in:

  • $2883 for the church building fund
  • $2117 for the Uganda team.
  • or a grand total of $5000 exactly. Not bad for a days work.

OK, MY FAMILY NEEDS YOUR HELP.

Alright blog readers. The static gurus say that about 380ish people hit this blog up every week for a quick read, usually clicking around for less than 2 minutes before bouncing onto other things in your internet world. But I’m calling on you for help now.

Perhaps you are a friend from my old youth ministry or my current one. You might be family. You might even be a coworker in ministry somewhere around the world. You could be a friend who just loves to see my latest family picture collages. Or maybe you are just a stranger who landed here by mistake and you love this amazing blog so much that you keep coming back to find out what will happen next in my crazy family life.

But regardless of who you are, if this blog is making a difference in your life through what your read or if you just enjoy watching my family and adventures through the internet: I NEED YOUR HELP. So hook a brother up and please read the whole post you skimmers!!

HERE GOES:

If you regularly read this blog, the you know that this last January marked the beginning of a new phase in my family’s world when my sister and her family moved to Uganda for a 2-3 year missions trip with an organization called EMI. As a result, we decided that one of the big ways we could support them was to bring our family to visit and encourage and serve with them. So we decided several months back to go this summer.

But since I work everyday as a youth pastor, it just didn’t seem to make any sense to go all the way to Africa and not take some of my students to experience this kind of life-changing opportunity. So long story short, from July 12-25th 2008 all five of the Berry’s, 11 high school students, and 4 adults will be going to Jinja, Uganda to serve the poor. We will be working with the first and largest orphanage (Welcome Home) for children ages birth to 6 years of age in this city.

Their mission is two fold:

  • Physically, they exist to care for the children of Uganda who are orphans, sick, dying, abused, abandoned, or neglected who have no chance of survival without intervention. The cool thing is, they even help families start local businesses so they can be self-sustaining and feed the children whom they really try to return to their families. They are not just putting a band aid on poverty, they are trying to solve it all together and they are making great progress in this community. Also, they will pay for the medical expenses of any child from their program all the way up to the age of 12, even after they’ve been returned to their family- so no child dies due to an inability to pay for medical expenses. So cool.
  • Spiritually, they desire to provide a loving life-giving environment to give each child a healthy secure foundation for life teaching them God’s love for them. They also partner with local churches and God is making a difference in and through them.
It is going to be a great privilege to learn from and partner with an organization that works hand in hand to change the world, one child and family at a time. Here’s what our family and team will be doing while we are there:
  • Helping with some basic building maintenance and cleaning.
  • Help care for, play with, and encourage the nearly 60 children and almost that many local staff as well that call this their home and ministry.
  • Help with teaching these young lives a spiritual foundation through crafts and stories from the Bible along with the aide of a local church.
  • Travel into the surrounding villages and communities to help the orphanage increase its influence and presence in the community as a positive place for children and families in need.
  • Take over much needed supplies for the everyday operations of the orphanage too.
This will be a life changing chance for those on this trip, many of whom (including our own children) are young enough that it could shape the very way they view the world and even how they choose to one day live their adult lives. We sure hope so.

Finally, after we send the high school team back to the U.S. with our adult team members, our family will be staying for another 10 days to visit with Brian’s parents and the Crawfords in Kampala, Uganda as we experience this new life together. (We will even do a 3 day safari grandma and grandpa are sponsoring in murchison falls!) Oh, and we are stoked to be able to take our kids in early August to a village where we sponsor Geofrey, a child with World Vision. How cool will that be for our kids to meet a child we pray for and send money to regularly, half way around the world. I think that alone will change their young lives for forever.

In order to do this missions trip , we are deep in the process of raising our portion of the support for this team, which is $4000 per team member. (ONLY THE ORPHANAGE MISSIONS PORTION. The stuff in the paragraph above is being covered by our family and is NOT included in this cost. The only cross over expense is the obvious fact that we are saving airfaire by not flying over once to be with family and a second time to be with a team from our student ministries.) Anyway, you read that right. It’s about a 20 grand investment for our part as a family and ministry. Holy Moley.

So, as is the tradition of many a Christian through the centuries, we are sending letters to seek the support of friends and family and in our current technology world, I’m blogging about it.

We are also doing various side jobs and providing several services around our community, selling a bunch of stuff in garage sales, and even our family is doing some intense door to door community recycling to create added income with our boys. It all adds up to result in a life changing opportunity for our team, our family, and those we will be serving in Uganda this summer.

SO, THIS IS WHERE YOU COME IN!

If you want to pray it up for us, you can keep checking this blog for updates and this one we created just for that purpose. That would be extremely appreciated and really helpful. I’m a HUGE fan of your prayer support. So please add our whole team to your prayer life.

Also, you can contribute a tax deductible donation to our team on our behalf as a sign of how deeply this blog makes your life so much better :). (380 readers could really add up fast you know) Seriously, we’ll send you a thank you letter and a picture from us in Uganda after the trip and you’d be helping us change the world, one kid at a time.

So, if you feel so able, send a check in any amount made out to Journey Community Church (just write Uganda in the memo section. No need to put my name there). Then send it to the following address. We’ll record it, thank God for it, and send you a receipt after our trip. Make sure your name and address so I can send you some love.

  • Journey Community Church.
  • c/o Brian Berry (UGANDA FUND)
  • 8363 Center Drive, Suite 6c.
  • La Mesa, Ca. 91942
I WILL BE FOREVER GRATEFUL TO YOU FOR HELPING US CHANGE THE LIVES OF OUR KIDS, OUR TEAM, AND PEOPLE A CONTINENT AWAY.

blogging for Jesus and trying to change the world with my family,

Brian C. Berry

FIGHTING FOR FREEDOM

Isn’t it weird that in a culture that prides itself on freedom, so many of us daily fight to free ourselves from the bondage that capitalism often creates.

If that thought resonates with you, then you’ll enjoy another great article by Patrick Lencioni this month. They haven’t yet posted the whole thing to his website, but I’ll tease you with part of what he e-mailed earlier last month to those who subscribe:

The Danger of More Shiny New Things

I‘m sure it‘s natural for people to be fascinated with acquiring new things. Whether we‘re talking about physical possessions like homes or cars or toys, or more conceptual assets like knowledge or technology or business strategies, we seem to highly value what we don‘t have, especially when it is novel.

I suppose this is understandable—even good—in a society that values progress and innovation. However, there is a cost to overemphasizing and over-valuing all things new, a cost that goes beyond obvious concerns about greed and over-consumption. When we are in constant pursuit of acquiring more of the latest and greatest, we usually diminish or dilute the power of what we already have.

My twin boys turn ten years old this month, and as I ponder what gift to give them, I realize that what they probably need more than anything is more time to play with the things they already have, things they haven‘t begun to fully use or enjoy. Giving them something new may not make them much happier, and may actually cause them distress. You‘ve seen this dilemma on Christmas morning as your children sit in the midst of their own FAO Schwartz store, slipping into a toy-overload coma, overwhelmed by the choices they have and seemingly unable to process it all. If you‘re like me, you probably chastised yourself and vowed to your spouse that “next year we should give them just ONE present.”

This same phenomenon affects us as leaders of organizations too. But rather than toys, the objects of our desire usually involve knowledge or information. Most leaders I work with grow bored easily, and are in constant pursuit of strategies, ideas, trends—even employees—that will somehow transform their organizations. Unfortunately, they haven‘t come close to fully tapping the strategies, ideas, trends or employees that they already have, and yet they discard those untapped assets in exchange for new ones.

On a personal level, I‘ve experienced this phenomenon too. I‘ve recently come to the conclusion that I should stop reading so many new books and magazine articles. Instead, I should go retrieve the top ten books and articles that I‘ve already read, and start re-reading them again and again. After all, I‘ve forgotten most of what I‘ve learned in those books, and I‘m certainly not using or tapping into more than a fraction of what they have to offer. Instead, I‘m pursuing more and more new material, which only crowds out the space in my brain to recall and put to use the tried and true goodness of what I‘ve already learned.

Why do we do this? Perhaps we want to stay current. Or we don‘t want to feel out of touch. But I think it is based more in pride of knowing things than in real pursuit of excellence, integrity and discipline.