Husband. Dad to 5. Student Ministry Pastor. Follower of Jesus. Yatta yatta.

WHY I’LL PROBABLY GET AN F IN ETHICS CLASS

Today we were given this case study to read in the last 15 minutes of class. We were supposed to read it and then discuss what we’d do in this scenario… if you want a taste of ethics class at the graduate seminary level 🙂 , you can read on:


Keith Loewen is nearing the end of his seminary education- just weeks away. It has been a long haul, but God has been faithful and the end appears in sight. Norma, his wife, has been incredibly suppportive through the years, and has not complained about their tight finances and the debt load they’ve acquired. This final year Keith quit the software company he had been working for, and has been working various weekend odd-jobs so that he can go to seminary full-time and finish everything up in a final push to the finish line. One down-side of this strategy is that they have no medical insurance. Their eight-year old daughter Natasha is overdue for some expensive corrective surgery on her legs. It breaks their hearts to see her in such discomfort.

Keith has already interviewed for an associate pastor position at a well-established church in an adjacent state, and has been offered a surprisingly well-paying full-time job, with medical benefits, as soon as he graduates from seminary. “There are a lot of needy people in crisis in this congregation, Keith,” the chairman of the church board had confided. “They’ve already come to love you and Norma, and can’t wait for you to come.” Completing the Master of Divinity was the only unfulfilled requirement of the position. As soon as Keith gets it, they’ll move and, of course, schedule Natasha’s surgery.

Keith’s last required course had a take-home exam that had to be handed in electronically before Monday morning at 9am. The professor, who has a reputation for being a real stickler, warned the class all term that there would be no grace for late exams. Either get it in on time or take an “F”.

With everything going on in their hectic lives, Keith forgot about the deadline. He remembered around noon on Monday while he was stuck in traffic. It was a horrible moment. He called the professor immediately to see if there were any exceptions. But the professor simply reiterated his policy. Keith’s only hope was to report that he had sent the exam in on time, but somehow it hadn’t gone through on the internet. The professor said he would simply need a witness (someone like Norma, for example) who would support her husband’s account of what actually happened.

Keith and Norma were on the couch in their small apartment, discussing their options, and pondering the catastrophic consequences if he failed to graduate. “Maybe this is the time for a little white lie,” Keith speculated with his head in his hands. Just then the phone rang, and little Natasha, who’d been listening to their conversation, ran to get it. “It’s for you, Mommy,” she called. Norma was at the end of her emotional energy. “Tell them I’ve stepped out,” she shouted back. She had bigger problems to deal with.

If you were Keith, what would you do? If you were Norma, what would you do? And what would be your advice to little Natasha? Give reasons for your answers that reflect engagement with categories and concepts discussed in this course.

Here’s my answers that I said to my discussion group table:

  1. SLAP KEITH: I’d get my buddies together and have a slap-a-thon with Keith until he gets a clue. What kind of dad watches his kid walk around in pain all day in the name of school? Get a job at Starbucks part time and get some freakin’ benefits. Or drop out of school and quit paying thousands of dollars for class and put it towards health insurance instead. What a dork.
  2. SMACK THE PROF: Forget lying to the professor. Let’s slash his tires. What kind of jerk can’t have compassion for a graduate student who has thousands and thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours invested in this guys salary and is one class away from a degree just so he can hold to his stupid rules. Give the dude another day and knock his grade on the test down a notch or whatever, but wake up and smell the coffee! The world doesn’t revolve around seminary.
  3. DRIVE A TRUCK THROUGH THE CHURCH: What is up with this congregation’s leaders? I’d drive my truck through the front door in protest as a wake up call to this idiocy. What kind of well established rich church watches the daughter of a future pastor on their team go through delays for surgery under the auspice that he is highly qualified to do the job, minus one small issue of a piece of paper the dude is one class from getting? Someone on this board needs a good fish smack to the face.
  4. WHERE DID THIS GUY FIND THIS WIFE? Did he buy her online? My wife would have left me at the corner and told me not to come home until I figured out how to get a job and help our daughter. It would have sounded something like, “If you love that stupid seminary so much, you can marry it. While you’re at it, why don’t you just go ahead and sleep there. I’m going to sell all your tools on craig’s list to pay for our daughter’s surgery. When you wake up and pull your head out of the hole you’ve got it buried in, maybe I’ll let you sleep in the backyard for a while.”

I think the issue was supposed to be about lying. Yep, I’m gonna fail this class.

CHRISTIAN ETHICS. WEEK TWO.

Continuing in my promised weekly posts on ethics, here’s my latest internal wrestling match:

HOW IMPORTANT IS MOTIVE?


Which is more important that you do the right thing or that believe the right thing? Is it more important to be moral or to act moral?

On the one hand we could argue that God sees our motives and judges us for them first and foremost. This is how Samuel was instructed to pick David out of a family line up. He was told to look at the hidden issue of motive, not the physical stature or accomplishments of the individual in question. (1 Sam 16:7) Many use this classic text to reinforce the idea that what God cares about most, is our motivation. In the case of a lie with Rahab for example- it’s not what she said, but why she said it (truth or lie) that really matters. On the flip side, in the case of the Pharisees, their obedience was good, but their motivation was bad and thus Jesus condemned their actions as useless and empty. In the world I’m currently studying, this is called “virtue ethics”; which is the idea that being comes before doing and that if you do the right thing, but for the wrong motives, it’s fake and doesn’t count.

However, we quickly find ourselves in a classic question of, “Which comes first, the chicken or the egg.” This argument is somewhat cyclical. For every person that says that right motives produce right actions, there’s someone else who will say that right actions formed the right motive in the first place. So which do we do? Is God more concerned that I am good in my actions, or in my motives? Should I do the right thing, even if it’s hypocritical to my hearts intentions?

For example: A while back my neighbor’s pipes exploded and flooded their entire downstairs. I came home and was expecting to sit down and relax. Instead, I found someone across the street in a minor/major catastrophe. No one’s life was in danger, but it was surely jacked up and they needed extra hands. So then, should I serve people and help my neighbor clean up the water spill, even if I’m tired and don’t feel like it? Should I go over instead and say, “I could help, but I’d be a hypocrite before God, because I don’t want to?” Or perhaps I should say that I won’t help you because I know I’d really only being doing it to make myself feel good and think that God is happier with me in my works based theology, therefore I’m not going to help instead. Does that seem right?

If I say yes, I should do the right thing, regardless of my motivations, then what I’m really saying is that God is more concerned with my actions, than my motives and that he actually rewards or uses my good done with wrong motives. Or at the very least, I’m saying that God rewards my good done with wrong motives beyond my evil done in accordance with my selfish motives. Like all of a sudden, good becomes an issue of the lesser of two evils and that I should at least do good, even if I’m not going to be good on a motivational level.

I guess this leads me in the direction of the real deeper question for me of, “Can these two issues be so clearly separated in the first place?” Can I really divide up my life into a clear motive on one side and an action on the other or is my life a muddy mess of motives and actions. Sometimes they line up, either evil for evil or good for good, but most of the time it’s not that clear for me. In this case, perhaps the spiritual pursuit of loving God is not to clean up one side of this coin in service of the other, but instead to see both my hands and my heart become fully devoted to God.

Some days that means that my hands will lead my heart. I’ll help tie a shoe for my kid when I’d rather sit on my butt and read, because it will form my heart to be more selfless and less ugly. I think this is what led Abraham to be willing to sacrifice his son Isaac. Surely his actions were primarily leading him in what resulted in a more fully devoted heart to God.

Other times I think my heart will be right and my hands will be tired. Jesus said that sometimes, the heart is willing but the flesh is weak. Perhaps he was driving at the reality, that sometimes our heart must move our hands to act when my flesh is in rebellion. Maybe this is how lust and laziness and greed are conquered; by the overthrowing of the actions of my godless habits through the motive of my God-oriented soul.

I read this quote this week that made me think. It’s by a guy named William Frankena who said, “Principles without traits are impotent and traits without principles are blind”.

I like that quote. It seems to sum it up this little dichotomy nicely. As a Jesus follower, if I claim to love God and do nothing to show it, I deceive myself. However if I do good and don’t love God, I deceive others into thinking I’m really good, when in reality I’m just faking it. And the truth is, most of the time, both are true of me. I’m a muddy mess of heart and hands that sometimes work as a team and other times are at war inside me.

Maybe someday both my doing and my being will be one. In the mean time. I’ll keep letting them duke it out in the hopes that the result might move me to more consistently and fully honor my God.

TURNING YOUR TRASH INTO A TREASURER

TJ came to me last week and asked if I would help him run for school treasurer. So I asked him why and what it meant and what he needed from me. He said he wanted to help the school count money and raise money for field trips and supplies and stuff and he needed a slogan, some signs, some stickers, and a speech.

So we came up with this campaign slogan, TURN YOUR TRASH INTO CASH.

Then he and I made campaign posters, printed labels/stickers to give to his friends, and wrote his campaign speech, which he gave yesterday:

Hi ravens. I am T.J. Berry and I am running for the office of treasurer! And I want the job. But lots of other people do too. So why choose me?

Good question. The answer is simple: It’s because I’ll turn your trash into Cash!!!

If you elect me, soon you will see recycling trashcans at the lunch area. I’ve seen you guys buy water bottles and soda cans and throw them away. Instead of throwing them away put them into our new cans at lunch or after school. Then, every month, I’ll get some of you together and with the help of my dad, we will take the cans and bottles to the recycling center. The money that we get, we will turn into the school. And soon you’ll see your trash become a field trip, school supplies, fun days, all different sorts of stuff.

So vote T.J. Berry for treasurer. That’s right. Vote T. J. Berry and I’ll turn your trash into CA$H!!

And on Friday I made sure to go with Shannon to pick up the kids. We decided either way, we’d go to ice cream to either console or celebrate with him. As we were backing out of our house, I forgot my camera and ran back to get it. Shannon said, “What do you need it for?” I said, cuz if he wins, I want the smile on camera.

While we were waiting in the car line, I could tell by his mannerisms that he’d won. So as we drove up, I leaned out the passenger window with my camera to get the real deal on film as he’s yelling, “I won! I won! I won!”. Here you go.

Ladies and Gentlemen, one happy 5th grade boy who just got elected his school Treasurer shot by one happy Dad who has now evidently booked himself to be recycle boys ride for the remainder of the school year Fridays I suppose.

(PS.- Tyler lost a tooth this week just in time for school pictures. You can check out his proud missing tooth face in the upper left hand corner too)

SOMETHING IS DESPERATELY WRONG…

with this and this. These two should not both be true of the same planet.

THE BLUE MARBLE

These pictures from NASA here are AWESOME. I love this stuff. Not to burst the bubble on the picture below, but they added the moon in from other photos for effect and magnified the topography 50x to give it the depth this picture has. But it’s AWESOME. I love it when creation declares the beauty of God. There’s a whole bunch more on that link- well worth some browsing time.