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Archives for January 2008

YOUTH MINISTRY STILL NEEDED?

Here’s part of a text message exchange I’ve had with a student as of late:

Student: lets have a group nite at in n out sometime.

Me: Um. Ok. Not sure that they really want or that we could do a bible study there but maybe we could eat there.

Student: Ok. How about a challenge- more burgers wins.

Me: I saw a kid eat an 8×8 once.

Student: ya so what if u r scared. U can’t beat me I understand.

A few days later…

Student: So, there’s group tonight right?

Me: Yes, 6:30.

Student: ok. great. I’m taking a crap at school right now.

later that day…

Student: Hey, there’s a great book called a Christian Manifesto by Francis A Schaeffer. U need to read it.

Me: Did you read it?

Student: I’m on chapter 4. I really like it. I’m in class right now and my teachers don’t pay attention. Ok.. you should read it. See you at church tonight.

Me: great. see you then.

right before group that night….

Student: Hey my parents r drunk or a little buzzed so I can’t get a ride. See you wednesday.

Me: Ok. When do you get your license yo?

Student: wen I study the papers I have.

Me: you should get on that.

A few days later:

Student: We have group tonight rite?

Me: We have a worship night. 7 to 8:30pm

Student: K, I’ll be be there.

Later that night:

Student: sorry I could not make it tonight.

Me: No big deal. you were missed. Is everything OK?

Student: kinda. I have to return a saw to home depot. I need to pay for it.

Me: I’m confused, did you steal it?

Student: Yes, I stole the saw last sunday after church. I was at my friends house last weekend and we have always wanted to make a treehouse so on Sunday we went after church.

Me: Dude. We we need to talk on Sunday.

Student: Ok, on sunday can we talk about how God could help me stay away from porn.

QUESTION: is youth ministry still needed?

ANSWER: um… this exchange references drunk parents, classic christian reading by Francis Schaeffer, the bible, stealing, and porn. No wonder he’s confused. I also took a student to grab some ice cream after school last week and we discussed the pitfalls of drug dealing, and what God would have us do with $10,000 in cash piled up from such an activity.

CONCLUSION: Either my youth ministry isn’t working or discipleship sure is a long, slow, process.

YOUTH MINISTRY STILL NEEDED?

Here’s part of a text exchange I’ve had with a student as of late:

Student: lets have a group nite at in n out sometime.

Me: Um. Ok. Not sure that they really want or that we could do a bible study there but maybe we could eat there.

Student: Ok. How about a challenge- more burgers wins.

Me: I saw a kid eat an 8×8 once.

Student: ya so what if u r scared. U can’t beat me I understand.

Me:

EXPELLED

I just saw this post on marko’s blog and I clicked this link and watched the trailer for an upcoming movie called Expelled. Wow. I’m hooked.

In college I was the president of an organization called “truth seekers” for about a few years. We brought philosophical and theological debates from the foremost thinkers in their respective arenas to UC. Davis. We hosted debates on creation/evolution, the foundation of morality, and the existence of God with speakers of high reputation and writings on both sides of the coin. I don’t really love the debate format, but college students a Universities do, so it made for some interesting experiences in a format that often packed the largest rooms on campus to overflowing. This movie trailer brought back some memories and made me want to rush to the theatres. Very interesting. I’ll be watching in the spring of this year with my old UC. Davis alumni jersey on just for old times.

CREATION CARE QUESTIONS

I’ve been wrestling with some questions as of late:

1. How can I care for creation, while ensuring that I do it as an act of worship of the Creator and not the created?

2. Is it really evil to live in a suburban house or drive an SUV? These two things have become the symbolic epicenters of the image of all things godless and evil among some Christian writers/bloggers I’ve been reading lately. Are they right or wrong and why do I agree or disagree with them?

3. Is there ever such a thing as “over-populating the earth”? Or is overpopulation actually really about sin and selfishness more than resource management?

4. How many of our planet’s resources are actually being used up for the sole purpose of keeping human beings from stealing what is not theirs? I wonder how many more products are being made to replace ones that are stolen or destroyed? I wonder how many trees have died and how many millions of tons of plastics have been created to keep people from stealing the product? Isn’t this the reason my son’s 2″ toy must come in a 12″ box or the reason my digital camera SD card must come in a box 500 times it’s volume. Maybe part of it is marketing, but how much? I think the sin of stealing causes a huge percentage of the earth’s resources to be unnecessarily used up. I wonder if all stealing stopped, how it would change our world economy and the planet as a whole?

5. If we were living perfectly in harmony with the earth, do we really believe that means the earth stops changing? Any run of the mill geologist would tell us that volcanoes are still building new mountains, while erosion of snow and rain is destroying others. Continents are shifting, climates are changing,and life is in a constant state of change. Most scientists even believe we at one point had an “ice age” and that one could even return in the future. Some changes I can influence. Some I’m merely at the mercy of the earth and God on. So if that’s the case, perhaps the real question is how can I live in harmony with the earth, the Creator, and it’s changes without being a catalyst to unnecessary planet change or harm due negligence on my part?

still thinking…..

NEW ADDITION TO THE BERRY CLAN

Meet Geofrey Kakooza.  

No we didn’t adopt another son.  Well, I take that back.  We sorta adopted one.   
Our last family that we sponsored with World Vision moved to a region that World Vision does not have resources in, so we had to discontinue our support of him.  In the process, World Vision sent me a letter explaining the situation and told me they’d select another child for me at random unless they heard from me or I had a specific request.  Well, the honest truth is that I was feeling like a bit of a loser in my ability to communicate with my boys about our sponsor child in Zambia.  I’d leave the helps that World Vision would send in a pile and then forget to talk it over with my boys before the due dates for christmas cards and easter calendars and stuff.   We sent our monthly money, but we didn’t do a very good job with the day-to-day prayer and regular pen pal stuff I think we could have done better with.  Part of that was because of the hap-hazard nature of our berry bonding nights to remind me and part was just me.  But either way, I really needed a fresh start, but never felt like that was a real option.
So, this time, I was hoping for a situation that would lend a little more accountability and motivation to do just that.  So, since my sister and brother-in-law and their 3 boys are moving to Uganda for 2 years and since we are going to visit there this summer as a family, I asked World Vision if they could get us a sponsor child in Uganda, within driving distance of Kampala.   
Well today, Geofrey Kakooza arrived.  Born April 14, 2002, just 5 1/2 months older than Jake.  He lives with his grandmother and 2 brothers- meaning he is from a family of 3 boys too. Over the coming months we’re going to make he and his family a weekly part of Berry bonding and a daily part of our family prayer life and I’m super excited that there’s a good chance we’ll be able to work with World Vision for my boys to put a person with this face.  It will be so good for them to get a global view of faith and love and poverty and hunger and culture and blessings and so much more at a young age. How awesome would that be for us to know a kid in Uganda who needs our support and to even build a face-to-face friendship with a kid half a planet away.  That’s a sweet idea and one of the rare blessings of living in our day and age of mail and airplanes.
Welcome to the family Geofrey.  I pray we bless you as much as I know it will bless my boys to know you.